Giving Back Matters: A Sister Story

At Phelps Health, two sisters demonstrate how small acts of kindness can make a big difference. Debbie and Barbara Grommet have worked at the Phelps Health Hospital for years and have found more than just jobs—they've found a family and a purpose.

Two sisters, two paths

Debbie, 69, works as a dietary aide in Food Services. Her journey to Phelps Health wasn’t easy. At 59, she lost a job she had held for over 33 years. Debbie was worried about her future but found a new beginning in the Hospital’s Cafeteria. 

For over 26 years, Barbara, 64, has been drawing blood for patients all over the Hospital. She’s now a lead lab assistant in the Main Laboratory. Barbara's path to Phelps Health began with a simple conversation. 

"My friend Dee Duncan suggested I apply for a phlebotomy position," she recalled. "Drawing blood sounded cool, so I gave it a try and never looked back."

Both sisters quickly discovered that Phelps Health is more than just a workplace. "It feels like a family away from family," Barbara explained. Debbie agreed, noting how many retired employees return to work part-time because they miss the community. "It's fulfilling to be part of something special," she said.

A Personal Reason to Give

Together, the Grommet sisters have donated an impressive $7,580 to the Phelps Health Foundation, the charitable arm of Phelps Health that provides for the community's healthcare needs. Their giving is based on deeply personal experiences.

Debbie's motivation stems from a challenging time in her life. As a young single mother, she and her child became sick. With limited resources, she struggled to afford their medication. Then, the Greater Rolla Area Charitable Enterprise (G.R.A.C.E.) stepped in to provide transportation, medicine and support when she needed it most.

"That act of kindness stayed with me," Debbie said. "I know what it feels like to receive help when you need it. Now, I can help others in similar situations."

For Barbara, giving is a community responsibility. "Our community is made up of our family, friends and neighbors," she explained. "When we contribute to the Foundation, we support people we know and care about. Everyone who can give should give—even small amounts add up and make a big difference.”

Making a Real Difference

The sisters are particularly proud of their donations supporting the Phelps Health Delbert Day Cancer Institute (DDCI). This nationally accredited cancer center provides top-quality care close to home, something both sisters genuinely appreciate.

Barbara has a personal connection to the DDCI. During a health scare, she needed a PET scan and was thankful to have the cancer center nearby. Barbara was greatly relieved when her results showed no signs of cancer. "I hear from grateful patients all the time," she said. "The Foundation's efforts directly impact lives."

Debbie appreciates how easy the Foundation makes giving. Through payroll deductions, she contributes without feeling the financial strain. "I never miss the money," she said. "But I see how it helps others. It's a simple way to make a big difference."

A Lesson in Giving

What makes their story special is their practical approach to generosity. "Donating just $5 a paycheck is like skipping a Monster energy drink and a bottle of water," Debbie pointed out. 

The Foundation noted this year that if every employee gave $5, $260,000 would be raised to support the patient care areas, new equipment or staff training. 

“Giving feels good. It’s fulfilling to know you’re helping your community,” Barbara added. “First, you take care of your family and then extend that to others. That’s what makes a community strong.”

For the Grommet sisters, giving back is more than a financial transaction. It's a way of honoring the support they've received and ensuring others have the same opportunities. Their story reminds us that kindness isn’t always about grand gestures but consistent, thoughtful actions that uplift those around us.